The funny thing about that "Y'all gon' make me lose my cool" line from DMX's "Party Up" is that the man has no perceptible cool to lose. And, face it, guys, neither do we. "Cool," both as a mindset and as a classic masculine ideal, is as finished for men as virginal innocence is for women--not because we're more "sensitive," but because it just takes more to get noticed these days. Better to be funny. Or aggressive. Or even naked,... More >>>