Oh god, please don't come to Hipshaker if you're "on the prowl." We are there to dance, not to get picked up. I will bite you, but not in a sexual way.
Where do you meet people you date Tugboattramp? Friends of friends, coworkers, or internet exclusively? Why do people in Minnesota tend to be so frigid, closed-off, callous, and cliquey? Ask transplants what they think trying to meet people in MN is like and this is what I hear again and again in some form, I experience it too. I like dancing as well, which is frustrating because the Twin Cities has a strange dearth of places to dance if you're not a grinding humping da club going "Ed Hardy T-shirts" wearing type. At the places where dancing does occur, people seem to be reticent to dance too much or too out there, and not open to engaging with others.