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2005 Stories by Dan Savage

• Savage Love

  published December 28, 2005

  My sister, whom I'm quite close with, has been getting into S&M. Recently she announced that she has acquired a slave. After much thought... More >>

• Savage Love

  published December 21, 2005

  Lest I be accused of waging a War on Christmas by the pro-Christmas lobby—oh, whatever would I do if the all-powerful puckerbutts at the... More >>

• Savage Love

  published December 14, 2005

  Here's my problem: I got fired from my job at the beginning of the summer and, long story short, ended up escorting to pay the bills. Being... More >>

• Savage Love

  published December 7, 2005

  I'm a 23-year-old straight male. Due to a rare autoimmune attack three years ago, I have been indefinitely confined to a wheelchair,... More >>

• Savage Love

  published November 30, 2005

  My boyfriend, Jason, is having problems with a boy named Roger who is obsessed with him. But because Roger is friends with Jason and... More >>

• Savage Love

  published November 23, 2005

  Am I out of bounds if I try to have a dialogue with my nephew about masturbation? He's 17 years old and I'm 52. I'm also a balanced... More >>

• Savage Love

  published November 16, 2005

  My boyfriend let me experiment on him with a strap-on. At first he didn't like it, but now he loves it. Now I want to have sex with another... More >>

• Savage Love

  published November 9, 2005

  My stepdad is gay. He fell in love with and married my mom anyway, and they appear to have a strong relationship despite his sexual... More >>

• Savage Love

  published November 2, 2005

  I've been with my guy for almost eight years. He wants sex way more often than I do, but I don't want it because I'm not attracted to his... More >>

• Savage Love

  published October 26, 2005

  My wife and I were married straight out of college. At the time I knew she suffered from a potentially debilitating mental disorder, so I... More >>

• Savage Love

  published October 19, 2005

  Any words of wisdom on girlfriends, boyfriends, and spouses who claim to be GGG, but systematically take away much of what they give by... More >>

• Savage Love

  published October 12, 2005

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• Savage Love

  published October 5, 2005

  I hope this problem isn't too boring: I adore my smart, affectionate, sexy husband—but he's impotent. We don't really need medica... More >>

• Savage Love

  published September 28, 2005

  I fully support gay rights and wrote a letter to the prime minister--I'm up in Canada--supporting gay marriage. But whenever I get into... More >>

• Savage Love

  published September 21, 2005

  I'm a 21-year-old straight guy with a boring, straight sex life. Until a few months ago when something terrifying happened. Back in May, I... More >>

• Savage Love

  published September 14, 2005

  A friend of mine is setting up a website with some of her friends for feminist (mostly queer) porn. I'm straight, and she asked me if I... More >>

• Savage Love

  published September 7, 2005

  How can I tell if I'm asexual? Is it a legitimate orientation or am I just a seething ball of neuroses? Sex does nothing for me.... More >>

• Savage Love

  published August 31, 2005

  I went to a friend's wedding, a friend whom five years ago I would have called a "best friend." I don't know how to describe our friendship... More >>

• Savage Love

  published August 24, 2005

  I'm a smoker who has decided it's time to quit. But my boyfriend has a smoking fetish. He likes it when I smoke while we're having sex; he... More >>

• Savage Love

  published August 17, 2005

  You so rarely answer questions of etiquette in your column, unlike so many of your advice-giving peers. Here's one for you: I've been in a... More >>

• Savage Love

  published August 10, 2005

  I have been seeing this great guy for about two years now. A few months back I stumbled upon some she-male photos on our computer. When I... More >>

• Savage Love

  published August 3, 2005

  I'm still on vacation. Here's another column from the Savage Love archives, which are housed at Queens University in Kingston, Ontario. One... More >>

• Savage Love

  published July 27, 2005

  Hey, Everybody: I'm on vacation--my first in years--so I'll be running some much-loved, frequently requested classic Savage Loves for the... More >>

• Savage Love

  published July 20, 2005

  I have a question I don't think you've ever addressed in your column. I'm a 32-year-old heterosexual female who was stricken with... More >>

• Savage Love

  published July 13, 2005

  I have recently been exploring my bi side and experimenting with other men. I've come to a point of being perfectly comfortable with my... More >>