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Mary Stauffer stalked by former math student Ming Shiue

Mother survives 53 days trapped in closet with her daughter

Mary hadn't thought of Ming Shiue since the last school bell rang on the last day of class in 1965. He, on the other hand, had thought of little but her during those ensuing 15 years. He'd built a fantasy life around the belief that he and Mary were meant to be together.

Top: Ming Shiue's high school graduation picture. Bottom: Staff picture of Mary Stauffer.
Alexander Ramsey High School Yearbook 1965
Top: Ming Shiue's high school graduation picture. Bottom: Staff picture of Mary Stauffer.
Jason Wilkman's first-grade school picture
courtesy of Eileen Biernat
Jason Wilkman's first-grade school picture

At 3:45 p.m., Mary and her daughter, Beth, got into the family car and drove to Carmen's Beauty Salon in Roseville. They walked out of Carmen's chatting about Beth's new haircut.

As they headed toward their car, Shiue climbed out of a nearby ditch and approached them. Shiue grabbed eight-year-old Beth and pressed his gun to her head, saying to Mary, "I need a ride."

Mary opened the door for Beth to get into the front seat and then began walking around to the driver's side. Before she got very far, Shiue told her to get in on the passenger side with Beth. Mary climbed over her daughter and settled in the driver's seat. Shiue pushed in next to the terrified little girl and, gesturing with the handgun, motioned for Mary to drive to the nearby freeway ramp onto Interstate 35W and then to head north toward Anoka County.

Confused and stunned, but trying to stay calm, Mary asked Shiue if he was in trouble. He told her to be quiet and just drive, to which Mary replied, "We're Christians, and if you have a problem, we will try to help you." Shiue made no response. She then told him they were expected home soon, that her sister was coming over for a family dinner, and that her husband would wonder where they were.

He directed her to drive into a deserted grove of pine trees and turn off the car.

He then pulled rope and duct tape out of his jacket pocket, ordered the two of them into the backseat, and tied their hands behind them. Once he had secured their hands, he demanded they get into the trunk of the car, where he then bound their feet. With an ominous thud, he closed the trunk, got into the driver's seat, started the car, and drove off.

Lying back-to-back in the stiflingly hot trunk, Beth and Mary began to pray. Shiue abruptly stopped the car, got out, and opened the trunk. He did not want to hear their prayers. He taped their mouths shut, wrapping the tape all around Beth's head; it would remain there for several hours, eventually leaving a scar. As Mary would later remember it:

Finally, he stopped the car and Beth and I could hear voices, mostly the voices of children. We learned later that he'd stopped the car in Hazelnut Park in Arden Hills. When he opened the trunk that time, he became furious when he saw that Beth had untied her ropes and had been working to untie mine.

Shiue shouted, "Look what you've done." Then he placed the spare tire on top of us so we couldn't make further attempts to get free.

Just then, a little child walked up to the car and saw us tied in the trunk; he looked at our abductor and said, "Hi, wha—?" Before he could finish what he was saying, the little boy was thrown in the trunk with us and the trunk was slammed shut.

   

SHIUE PARKED in the backyard of his home on Hamline Avenue in Roseville, a neighboring suburb to Arden Hills.

Guiding Beth by her shoulders, Shiue walked the child inside the house, not removing her blindfold until they stopped in front of a bedroom closet. Then he pushed her in the closet and closed the door. Engulfed again by thick darkness, Beth screamed for her mother. Telling her to stop screaming, that he was going to bring in her mother, Shiue turned away and headed back outside.

As Mary stumbled, blindfolded and led by Shiue, into the house, she thought she heard him call her Mrs. Stauffer, but she wasn't sure. "It couldn't be," she thought. "I don't know him."

Once inside, Shiue took off Mary's blindfold and led her into the bedroom closet where Beth was waiting for her, tears of fear and exhaustion running down her face. Mary was horrified to see the closet had been prepared for them. In between her daughter's sobs, she heard Shiue say, "Just get in the closet, Mary."

Stunned at the sound of her name, Mary swung around to face her abductor. She realized she hadn't told him her name. She was close enough to smell his body odor; his teeth needed cleaning and his breath was hot and sour in her face. His hair smelled rancid and hung in greasy black clumps around his pockmarked face.

But startled to realize he apparently knew her, she asked, "Who are you?" When he didn't reply, she raised her voice. "You know me; how do you know me? Who are you? I want to know—who are you and what do you want?" Mary demanded.

Wordlessly, Shiue pushed her into the closet, closed the door, and jammed a large piece of furniture against it.

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  • curious 10/22/2010 10:23:00 PM

    "Ricky 04/24/2010 7:26:20 PM I was a witness for the State in this case. They needed my testimony to convict Shiue for transporting his victims over state lines. I saw Mary, Beth, and Jason who were all fine at the time. Oh, and I also saw that scumbag, Shiue. I witnessed his violent temper. May that man one day rot in Hell. " You were a witness for the State in this case- to convict him of transporting the victims across state lines. That would have not been for the State, but for the Federal case- and Jason would not have been a part of the situation at that point. You would never have seen Jason with Mary and Beth- Jason never was SEEN with Mary and Beth. I don't know if you were a witness or not- my gut tells me you were not. The things you throw out in your statement are just so full of errors, stop trying to ride the coat-tails of someone else's struggles for your 15 SECONDS of lime-light.

  • Mary DeVito 06/23/2010 9:25:00 AM

    I just watched Mind Games on ABC. I would love to know about how Shiue got into this country. What about his family? You do provide that one salacious story about how he entered his mother's bed. When this Asian boy shot up VA Tech his family disowned him.

  • Grace 06/23/2010 7:57:00 AM

    This man deserves to die. He killed a poor little boy and tortured an 8 year old girl, let alone raped her mother multiple times. Both of his trials that he went to that involved Mary he lunged and threatened to KILL HER! Honestly I don't think that just prison will get rid of bad thoughts.

  • Forrest 06/23/2010 7:56:00 AM

    This man should NEVER see the light of freedom. He should be put to death, but since that can't happen, he should at least be kept under STRICT lock and key in prison.

  • common sense 06/23/2010 7:31:00 AM

    This guy should be executed.

  • Jeanne Hall 06/19/2010 10:45:00 PM

    I would not trust anyone like Ming Sen Shiue. I'm amazed the verdict of "guilty but mentally ill" was never considered- perhaps such a verdict had not yet been concieved at that time. It's obvious though that Ming had an extreme case of "fatal attraction." Just to be safe, he should be kept imprisoned for life- he could still figure out how to find Ms. Stauffer once released.

  • Ricky 04/25/2010 7:27:00 AM

    I was a witness for the State in this case. They needed my testimony to convict Shiue for transporting his victims over state lines. I saw Mary, Beth, and Jason who were all fine at the time. Oh, and I also saw that scumbag, Shiue. I witnessed his violent temper. May that man one day rot in Hell.

  • Beth 04/19/2010 11:57:00 PM

    I remember this story like it was yesterday. I attended at BGC church at the time and we prayed for Mary, Beth and Jason daily. Ming is a monster, and should never ever be freed. He remains dangerous, and for the sake of his victims and society at large, he needs to remain locked up for life.

  • Glen 03/13/2010 6:45:00 PM

    I'm trying to follow this story from overseas, what was the court's decision on Ming Sen Shiue? Was he released?

  • Kathy 03/07/2010 8:22:00 AM

    My family and Mary's family are close family friends- we were missionaries in the Philippines together- and then lived in MN together. We spent most nights (of the 53) with Irv and Stevie trying to help them sort out this puzzle- and give them support. It was my family that met them first at the police station when they were found. I read this article and think that it is interesting that they way they escaped isn't even mentioned - Mary and Beth were tied together and the cable was around the door. It was the top hinge of the door that came loose - Mary was able to pull it out and release their cable -that was their ticket out - the reason they are free. I am glad that this story is published - as it is an amazing story of perservance, faith, and the will to survive. Also, I hope it will help keep this monster behind bars - for life.

  • Eileen 02/21/2010 1:35:00 AM

    Commentor No. 19 - You've only read an excerpt - the scene to which you refer is written accurately in the book. I reseached the technology and media involved in the crime quite thoroughly. Buy the book and read the actual text. Thanks for your interest. Author of Stalking Mary, Eileen Bridgeman Biernat. www.stalkingmary.com

  • number 22 02/19/2010 6:06:00 AM

    Not assuming since I do know them and I know what they have told me.

  • Joe 02/19/2010 4:31:00 AM

    Number 22, aren't YOU assuming that YOU know what the victims are feeling in your comment?

  • unknown 02/19/2010 3:55:00 AM

    Much of what she wrote is fiction- to sensationalize the story- to make people read it. From this short version of it it is quite clear she wrote things as fact that unless she spoke to people directly involved she could not have known. If I was one of the victims I'd be insulted and frustrated to have someone else write about how I felt or reacted when she could not have known. The victims refused to respond to her, if she truly cared about them rather than just righting the book she wanted to write about she would have taken that into account.

  • Lynn 02/19/2010 3:31:00 AM

    #18, I'm not sure what occupation you have, nor do I know what kind of knowledge you have in language or editorial work, but it really sounds like you just enjoy how intellectual you feel being when being unnecessarily critical. This article was written to bring attention to a terrifying situation and to inform. It does that beautifully, in my opinion. I am a professional editor, and I applaud Eileen for the courage it takes to self-publish, and for bringing such a horrifying and fascinating story to light. I am looking forward to the book's release!

  • Joe 02/19/2010 1:47:00 AM

    To Number 18, you clearly don't understand what self publishing means. The author was not standing in her garage printing out pages on an old press. Not only that, the book is not yet avaiable, so how can you even comment on the need for editing in the book? Buy the book, read it and then call Beaver's Pond Press (the publishing house used for the book) and you can tell their professional editors what kind of job they did!

  • R.F.C. 02/18/2010 6:07:00 PM

    I'm not even going to comment on the ethics of writing this story or the quality of prose... but the research and what material passed the editor of the book (as well as the City Pages) is surprising. In another article here, "KSTP, WCCO sought access to taped rapes...," there is an excerpt where the author has apparently confused videotape for film (she describes a scene where Shuie was able to conclude that his videotapes had been erased because he didn't see any images when he held the tape to the light...errr.. WHAT?). I'm not going to judge the whole book on that one excerpt, but it certainly makes me suspect of the quality of the research and the accuracy of the narrative.

  • Sojouner 02/18/2010 12:26:00 AM

    The story is horrifying and intriguing. I too, hope Mr. Shuie is not granted parole or release. But this writing is execrable, and could have used the hand of a good editor. I can see why the book is basically self published.

  • Eileen Biernat 02/16/2010 9:59:00 AM

    To Comment No. 16. All of those answers are in my book Stalking Mary:One Man's Fifteen-Year Obsession With His High-School Teacher. Available at www.stalkingmary.com. Thank you for your interest.

  • Glen 02/15/2010 8:03:00 PM

    How did this moron get a knife into the trial in the first place?! What genius allowed that to happen? Eileen, I thank you for drawing attention to this stain of a human being, but I think the attention also needs to be focused on HIS family; if this loony gets out, where will he go? Where do his family live? I highly advise you to do the same internet search to find them and begin drawing the public eye to them.

  • Beth 02/14/2010 4:26:00 AM

    It is not a testament to our courage and stamina but to God's mercy and grace that we have had VERY (not somewhat)full, happy, normal lives. Our courage and our stamina played no part in it. God's love- his promises, care, protection and power were got us through.

  • Marilyn White 02/14/2010 3:53:00 AM

    This guy should be locked up for life. I don't care if he has or has not gotten psychological counseling during his time in prison, I don't think he should ever be set free to possibly prey upon the public. What he did was too horrible to imagine, and it is to the courage and stamina of this mother and child that they were able to assume somewhat of a normal existence again. Nothing can excuse this person for what he did.

  • Mary 02/13/2010 8:39:00 AM

    I disagree with the comment that this article is somehow helpful to Ming finding Mary and her family. It's as the author states, you can buy this information online. If anything I think it can help her family. Hopefully this very well written article can raise a public outcry to keep this man in jail and he can never harm them or anyone else ever again. I would like to know if anyone has information on how one can protest his release. The other question I have is how could the courts have given him the tapes back? They were of an illegal activity. It's not like if you're convicted of possessing drugs you can say hey court, give me back my drugs. I don't get it at all. Thankfully somebody erased them.

  • Gary 02/11/2010 8:50:00 PM

    These sickos are dangerous and need to be put down like the wild animals they are!!!

  • debbie 02/11/2010 7:56:00 PM

    I can't say enough on how this article was written. Superb. I pray the right justice happens for this guy come March 8. No one in the community needs to be afraid again, especially Mary and her family.

  • One of the victims 02/11/2010 7:15:00 PM

    It is true we have not saught out publicity or had any desire to comment on the book or speak to the media on this. We have known his release date was set for July 7, 2010, this has never been a surprise to us. Everytime he was moved from prison to prison we have known. He was sentenced for 27 years for Jason's murder and 30 years for the kidnapping of the Stauffers. These were to beserved at the same time. This is how sentencing was carriedr out at the time of the trials in the early 80s. The injustice in this is that in essence he never served a day for the murder. He also was never tried nor served time for the rapes and the attack in the court room. That all said, as far as him being trouble for someone else, his only focus will ever be the Stauffer family. I believe with everything I am no one else- unless they are standing in his way (i.e. little Jason walking up to the car) will never be at risk. Do we believe he should be permanently institutionalized? Yes. We have very good reasons to believe that he has not changed, or that his intentions of harm towards the family have changed. But we also believe that our safety and our futures rest completely in the Hands of God. He carried both families through the ordeal, He has wonderfully good things out of what was intended for evil and He will continue to do so. Please don't resort to name calling. I believe Eileen's intentions were good when she wrote the book, even though a book is something our family never wanted written. It has happened, and now, we are leaving it in God's hands to bring glory to Him somehow through it. What people need to understand is both Beth and Mary have forgiven Ming for what he has done. We believe that there should be consequences for it, we don't live with our heads in the sand- thinking if he were out he wouldn't do anything- but we know where our safety lies and that there is a purpose for everything. God Bless-

  • Laurie 02/11/2010 5:08:00 PM

    This man should be committed for the rest of his life. He should have gotten life in prison for what he did. He killed a little boy for God's sake. He is still young enough to be plenty of trouble for someone else - if not the very same victims all over again.

  • Brett 02/11/2010 12:00:00 PM

    Eileen, your stupidity is not good for Minneapolis journalism.

  • Corly 02/11/2010 9:26:00 AM

    "MARY STAUFFER IS NOW in her late sixties and living in seclusion with her husband Irv and their son Steve. They spent many years in the Philippines continuing the work they began over 30 years ago. They retired from the Baptist General Conference in February 2009. Beth is married and has a young family." Correct, you didn't state that she lives in MN, but you made the assumption that she lives in seclusion. Really, what does that mean? I'm curious, because if living an active, life, involved with community, church and friends, still doing public speaking engagements is living in seclusion- I guess I don't know what the word is. to comment on Beth's current marital and family status when you say yourself she has not wanted to comment on the book is an wreckless and an invasion into her life and potentially dangerous to her family if she indeed has one.

  • Ann 02/11/2010 9:19:00 AM

    It shows that he is on parole because that is for the State sentance for the murder of Jason. The federal case, has him to be released in July 2010. If you look at the Federal BOP site, rather than the MN one, you'll see that he is still incarcerated. It is an easy mistake to make. Cheers.

  • Wayne 02/11/2010 2:53:00 AM

    According to a link found through Google, the perp is on some sort of parole as of 2007: http://info.doc.state.mn.us/publicviewer/Inmate.asp?OID=116768

  • Eileen Biernat 02/11/2010 12:45:00 AM

    I never wrote that Mary Stauffer lives in Minnesota. Eileen Biernat

  • Unknown 02/10/2010 11:34:00 PM

    Don't you think Mary and Beth would like to have kept their privacy? Writing this book is going to bring attention to them again. I'm sure Ming will be very happy that Mary is still in MN and that Beth now has kids of her own.

  • Ann 02/10/2010 11:10:00 PM

    Stalking Mary by Eileen Biernat is available for pre-sale at Beaver's Pond Press's online bookstore! It will ship early March! I ordered mine! http://www.bookhousefulfillment.com/cart.php?m=product_detail&special=1&p=1045

  • Unknown 02/10/2010 9:12:00 AM

    Kill this pig.

 

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