It sounds like this guy was just hyper sensitive why would you stay in the guys house over night & sleep in his bed if you were so "offended". Racism exists but I also think some people like this guy look for it & attract it. The guy that invited him to his house sort of thought out loud...But at least apologized for his statement. It wasn't offensive enough for him to leave his house. There is under lying issues here not being touched on...its not so cut & dry.