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I had to write about the couple who incorporated lactation into their BDSM relationship. As a breastfeeding mother, all I could think reading MADMILK's letter was, "What are they doing with all the milk?" If they have a surplus, and they must, I hope they're donating it to a milk bank and not just throwing it away. It takes A LOT of work to establish and sustain a milk supply and donated milk goes to the very sickest babies. If they Google "milk banks" they'll find lots of useful information.
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