Savage Love


Don't be a cock tease. It's not funny to do this to people you are with--it's mean. Stop any intimate experience that is moving toward sex if you have no intention of having sex.



I'm a 21-year-old female and I wanted to write in to give advice to younger girls. When I was 15 I never had problems getting guys, but I had problems keeping them, and I was clueless. When I look back I realize my problem was this: I was crazy. Don't make my mistake, girls. Don't be crazy. Don't get so hung up on someone just because you think you are "in love." When you're that young and hormonal everything seems like "in love," at least to girls. I would have had a much better time if only I hadn't been so clingy and moony.

Older and Wiser


You've given out advice to young guys seeking girls, and young girls seeking guys. I was just wondering if you might have some advice for a 15-year-old guy seeking guys?

Young Gay Boy


Forget about how a teenage boy can get girls. How about some advice for s 15-year-old girl on getting girls? It's so difficult to meet lesbians or bisexuals at this age, let alone start a relationship. If you have any advice, I would be so grateful.

Lonely Young Lesbian


After running columns packed with advice for 15-year-old straight boys and 15-year-old straight girls, how can I say no to dedicating a couple of columns to 15-year-old queers? Adult gays and lesbians: What do you know now that you wish you had known at 15? Send it to me and I'll pass it along to all those teen queers.


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